i dont mean to brag n dont feel like i can really explain it to anyone without sounding like bragging but i’m so in love!! I never felt this way before. I think i’m finally with the person I was supposed to meet to give my heart to in this life. He makes me feel complete and loves me unconditionally. It’s so fascinating. Anyone that is in a relationship that doesn’t make them feel good, I can tell you now, there is someone else out there that will let you blossom into the beautiful person you are without judgement and without holding you down. I felt like I was in love many times before but now I know that feeling is nothing like what I feel now. They were all false because I never knew what it really felt like until now. I get butterflies when i look at him and his face gets more beautiful every time I see him instead of getting used to it and bored with it. I can tell him anything without feeling like i’m going to offend him. I don’t have to pretend to be a perfect little doll without a temperment or cracks. I can be HUMAN. He doesn’t expect me to be anything but that. All I wanna do is explore the world with him holding my hand. He is truly my best friend and i’m so thankful for him. All the nonsense I went through when I was younger is all worth it to find him. I’m glad I got my heart broken and I’m glad all my past relationships turned to chaos. I’m glad I left all of the situations I felt like I needed to stay in because of the false sense of love I was feeling. Being upset all the time is not what love is supposed to be like. Sometimes love is right infront of your face, and if you give yourself the chance, you can have it too. Taking risks has gotten me everywhere I need to be.
12-year-old girl: I don't want kids when I grow up.
Society: You'll change your mind when you get older. You're only 12. You're too young to know what you want.
16-year-old girl: I'm pregnant.
Society: How could you be so stupid? Do you know anything about safe sex? You should be ashamed.
20-year-old woman: I'm a single mother with an infant son.
Society: You should've gone to college first. You need a stable career before you can support a child.
33-year-old woman: I'm married and my spouse and I both have stable careers. I have two young daughters now.
Society: You're not staying home? Who's going to take care of them? You're just going to put them in day care while you work? That's selfish of you. You can't expect to raise decent kids with a full-time job.
45-year-old woman: I just had my first child.
Society: Why would you have a child when you're that old? Do you realize the health risks of being pregnant at your age? When your kid is a teenager you'll be a senior citizen. That's inconsiderate of you.
60-year-old woman: I haven't had any children.
Society: Your life must be so unfulfilling. Is there something wrong with you? Why didn't you want kids? How strange.